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With a heavy heart

Postby mmob » May 24th, 2006, 8:24 pm

My father passed away peacefully tonight. I have been coming down every month since December. I had a lot of time with him to tell him just how much I love him and we did talk a lot. Last month (April) when I was down, he was starting to decline quite a bit and that was a tough goodbye - he cried when I left - with my heart in a million pieces. I came back down on May 10th and over the last two weeks he declined quite a bit. He was 91 and he was a tough old guy - a true hero to me. He had a rough afternoon trying to catch his breath, with the true kindness of Hospice we were able to bring him home two months ago so he could be where he loved to be. He finally started to breath peacefully and then just slipped away. I miss him dearly and will love him always - I was holding his hand when he died.

He will be buried this summer in Arlington NAtional Cemetary - with an honor guard, fitting for him.

Thanks for listening.

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Postby summerblue » May 24th, 2006, 10:34 pm

Maria

I am so soooo sorry for your loss. What an honor to be able to be with him until the very end.

I am very close with my dad - he raised me from an infant all my himself.

My prayers are with you and your family.

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Postby sheila » May 24th, 2006, 10:45 pm

Maria,
I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like you and your Dad had a very sweet relationship right up until the very end. I know you will cherish that for the rest of your life, as Im sure he did too. I am a firm believer that when someone we are close to pases on, that they are never really "gone". Physically, yes, that part is true. But I feel as if their spirits are with us and help guide us through our journey. Take care, and you will be in our thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and your family.
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Postby supermom » May 24th, 2006, 10:47 pm

Maria-We have all been thinking about you. You are never that far away. I am so glad that you had time to be with your father. I have talked with you before, and I hope you remember some of the things that I "said". You are strong and you will survive. His spirit lives in you. Allow him to live on through your actions. Remember that he is not really gone. Only now, you have to close your eyes to see him. You can always feel his presence, though. Stay strong.
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Postby Dayna » May 24th, 2006, 10:53 pm

Deepest sympathies to you and your family. For serving our country, he has earned his place as a true hero to all of us.
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Postby Nicole81 » May 25th, 2006, 2:34 am

So sorry for your loss. :(
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Postby nostoppingme » May 25th, 2006, 3:54 am

I am so sorry - life can be so painful. I'll be thinking about you and your Dad
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Postby Ketann » May 25th, 2006, 4:16 am

Maria,

I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers as well. Your father was a soldier and a hero to us all.

Hugs,

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Postby loriannk » May 25th, 2006, 4:53 am

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain of losing a parent. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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Postby Mom23 » May 25th, 2006, 4:57 am

I am so sorry. :hug: I know how tough it is to lose a parent -- my dad died 6 years ago today (on my mom's birthday) and she died (I think her heart was broken) 2 years later at Christmas...

My prayers are with you. :heart:
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Postby falisamarie » May 25th, 2006, 5:07 am

Maria~ I have been praying for you and I am continuing to do so during this time. I have been truly touched as I have read your posts by how much love you have for your dear father. Although it is not the same he will always be with you in your heart

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Postby wildtrk » May 25th, 2006, 5:37 am

So sorry for your loss...
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Postby FORMOMMY » May 25th, 2006, 6:39 am

Maria - so sorry for your loss. It sounds like you had a very special relationship with your Dad and that should be treasured.
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Postby Amber » May 25th, 2006, 6:42 am

Sincere condolences, peace to you at this time-
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Postby DntCryLilEmoGrl » May 25th, 2006, 7:19 am

im very sorry to hear about your loss maria. I do know how it feels to lose your father so you are definitely in my thoughts *big hug* glad you got to spend time with him before he passed though, that is so very important
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