When all else fails, you could try looking in the upper middle of your chest, nestle somewhat between your windbags. You can't miss it. Kinda makes a thubbidda sound over and over again.
Leah I see it showed up for you but Mr. Snippy also got to your siggy. We are not allowed to use graphics here. Tim has in the past let me use ticker like signatures here but because of size he prefers we dont.