I'm back on the plan after a several month break, happily I didn't gain all the weight back.
Now my office mates all know I was doing this before and how well it was working of me. So now that I am starteding up again I would think it would be a simple thing to understand that I have my food and my plan. But I have been bombarded with luncheons, happy hours and weekend parties. I try to turn them down saying I don't have a baby sitter for the munchkin, I have other things I need to do, and still they push and push. I remind them I can't eat their new found chili recipie and drink beer all after noon, or go out for cocktails. I can pull off the luncheon I cheeked out the menu and they have a nice grilled chicken salad I can get without cheese. But the drinking... I offered to go sit for a short while and sip a diet soda with them but they are like oh whatever you can have one or two drinks. I try and comprimise but they just push and push. If it was just friends I could easly avoid the situation by just not answering the phone if I had to, but I have to sit in the same office with these people. Also they are trying to turn happy hour into a buisness meeting type thing by inviting the customers along so we can "talk shop" in a casual enviorment.
Sorry for rambling, I just want so bad to get healthy and do this for myself and family that I get frustraited by other people that don't see the importantce of sticking with this 100% They think you can just slip off once or twice a week and get right back on track without doing any harm to the plan. ah well, another day, another shake, and some more fat cells gone. Maybe once they start seeing results again they will back off and be more encuraging.
Thanks for listening, I would be lost some days without this board.