tootsie wrote:Thanks Mrs.S
I've on MF for only 4 days.; doing 5 replacements 5 a day. Your idea is very good. I will try to drink with each meal. I need all the support I can get.. Friends and Family don't approve of MF. My MD thinks it's worth a try....she needs lose far more than I.
Mary Ann
Tootsie... I love that name!! Your friends and family do not approve because they miss that part of you that revolves around the pleasure that food brings THEM. This time when I did my redo, and I am on big day 4, I had to sit my family down....lined their little skinny butts up on the sofa and said..."Listen... I am goin to do this...YOU are going to support me. When we sit at the dinner table... you will eat your food and you will not comment on mine, or...I will eat somewher else." I want to sit with them at dinner but not if I have to hear.....Is that all you're eating??? Well Shooga, (we are from the south) you can take a gander at my behind and realize that I have not missed too many meals in my 50 years. I had to do the same thing with my secretary. She is not tiny...but she can wear off the rack clothes...she does not have to go on an easter egg hunt everytime she wants to buy an outfit... and her size never changes....anyway...I had to tell her too...our food days are gone....We loved friday lunches...as we would begin discussing them at 8am... and it is really funny, I notice her mood dropping around mealtime.
I have not told a lot of people and this has helped me. This is my battle, and I certainly don't need comments from the peanut gallery. I usually drink my shakes straight from the jar...I mean I don't make a meal or a ceremony out of it...I just drink it. The other day I poured it into a glass and another teacher walked in the library and said...Ohhhhh what's that??? and I'm sorry Nancy...but I told her it was a shake like Slimfast.... just did not want to deal with her questions. And ya know what?? I don't have too!!
ONce you start feeling better...your family will see that this is right for you....and that is all that matters..
Oh, I started out commenting on the water issue and got on my soap box and got distracted. Try mixing a tad of crystal light in with your water. My friend taughte me that trick and it just gives it enough flavor to make a difference...I have always been a water drinker...so this is a non issue for me. I just know how important it is...and how much better everything works when you are hydrated!!...and I do mean EVERYTHING!~!
hang in there
CC