How much is lost if on day 4 you eat half a pint of ice cream and 4 cookies? I was so happy to make it successfully through day 3. Day 4 was the first time I was around other people during meal times...watching them eat food, yummy food! Yesterday (day 4) I went boating with my friends and I brought my medifast with me. Of course my friends were supportive...they didn't even bring any sugar on the boat. But at lunch time they ate real food, and a lot of it, and I was jealous. I felt deprived! While watching them eat, I was telling myself, 'oh, that looks so good, that's it, forget it, I am going to go home tonight and buy food and eat...eat until I feel completely full, heck, I've been out on the lake all day doing water sports, I am sure I have burned some calories, so what the heck, I can afford to eat food today only, I'll allow myself to blow it today but then I will get back with it tomorrow and then from tomorrow on I will really start loosing the weight.' Then when I got home I changed my mind, had an extra shake and drank lots of water but then all of a sudden, it hit me instantly, I am going to the store and buying ice cream and cookies and nobody or nothing is going to stop me, and I just don't care right now. I was also telling myself that I can't even see myself as 'one of those thin persons' anyways, so what's the point? Other people are thin, or become thin--not me, I will never fit into slim clothes or have a slim body. I might as well enjoy some food.
Well, after I finished eating, I wrote down some of my feelings and I put them on my refrigerator so that hopefully next time I feel that way late at night I will read them first and remember the regret that I felt from last time.
I am not giving up, I am back to medifast today. I am wondering if since I already made it past the first three days (the hardest) and that since I ate last night, does my first three days start all over again? Am I going to be having the insane cravings like I did in the first three days? Is my body no long in ketosis?
Also, I need help with my next problem, my stinking thinking--I tell myself sometimes that I will never be a skinny person. That life of being skinny is not for me. I don't know if I believe that I don't desrve it, I don't think that it is humanly possible for me to do it, or what. I am also afraid of the attention being thin might bring me. I've been thin before, and when I was, I received a lot more attention, while some attention was good, some was bad. I felt men looking at me and undressing me with their eyes and that made me feel yucky, almost violated because I did not give those pervert men permission to look at me that way. I hated it when men stared at me, I absolutely hated it! And it's not like I was wearing revealing clothing. Being over-weight, I don't have to worry about being checked out by men, and that is a comfort to me. So I feel that I need to learn how to work through these feelings to be successfully at weight loss--both the belief that I will never be skinny and the fear of being skinny and gaining the attention of creepy men!!!
Thanks again everybody for your kind words of support!