by ljm498 » January 26th, 2006, 5:40 pm
5eh, it's great that your fiance is noticing and telling you about it. It's very motivating when you hear it out loud from someone else. You're lucky. My husband didn't say anything for the longest time, and usually he does. So I finally cornered him on it and he said he was afraid to say anything. I was confused so I asked him why? It's a good thing to say I look good or you can tell I'm losing weight! He said that he was afraid that if he said that, that it would be like him saying to my face that I was fat before or I didn't look good.
Uh, hello! I WAS fat! No denyin it! Once I assured him it was ok he got a lot better.
Keep up the great work and I'm sure your fiance will have plenty more to say!
Lynne
Me 34
DH 41
DS 1
Dcats Pookie & Poto
Started 3/28/05
Starting Weight 214.5
Current Weight 125
Goal Weight 115-120
Total Lost 89.5 lbs!!! Wahoo!!!