DntCryLilEmoGrl wrote:Hi Jo!
Its great to come back and see a familiar face still on here! i see you went on a nice lil vacation you look amazing btw
Did you see Hula Girl???
Hi Jo!
Its great to come back and see a familiar face still on here! i see you went on a nice lil vacation you look amazing btw
I am so happy you are back!
and of COURSE any extra pounds will be gone in a flash.
We never know how what we say can impact a newcomer or even an oldtimer.
Serendipity wrote:I'm responding to a conversation in another journal with my own thoughts....a little scattered, but here goes:We never know how what we say can impact a newcomer or even an oldtimer.
Wow, there are definately two sides to this issue. On the one hand, journaling should be a personal thing and the author should be able to write whatever she/he wants and should have control over the content. On the other hand, what bebes said (the quote above) is really something to think about. If all we write about is how we are getting around the program and how we are struggling, that isn't really very supportive for those just joining or those who are also struggling.
Don't get me wrong. I love my journal. I like the conversational aspect. I like the way journals have made us a closer knit group. In my own journal, I have tried to remain positive and supportive. I've had some struggles, but I try not to elaborate here. In reality, I treat this journal as a personal space with limits. I try to be honest without dwelling on the struggles. I can work those out inside my head...and believe me it gets pretty crowded there sometimes, pm a good friend, or talk it over with my health advisor.
The downside to including all of our thoughts in our own personal journals is that so many of our thoughts and actions are not Medifast endorsed. Sure, I can read a journal and knowing the person writing it, I pretty much know where that person is coming from. I've been around for 2 years, so I know. A new member reading it could be completely turned off and leave the forum or worse, leave Medifast altogether.
I think we as a group need to keep this in mind when we are posting - even in our journals. I want this forum to be a happy place to be and a supportive place and even a tough love place when need be. What I don't want it to become is a place where I can read about how so and so fell off again and isn't beating her/himself up and will probably do the same tomorrow and then everyone chiming in with positive support and pats on the back and "it's ok's". It's not ok and it's downright not helpful to give that kind of support. (just my opinion)
I'm not sure what the answer is. I would really hate closing the journals completely. Personally, I think we can all be grownups here and become more responsible with our postings.
I'm not done yet, but I have to leave work, so to be continued later.......
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