Dear Slimr ~
My, my, my-lanta! What an interesting saga you have here.
Yikes! I realize that it is not possible to go back in time and try to evaluate everything that transpired previously but this is my perspective.: I cannot undo what happened to you.
I don’t know who you are or if I am your Health Advisor or not and I do not have the time to gather all the particulars regarding your situation but let me make a few comments...
There are some people who have a resistant metabolism as a result of frequent diets, yo-yo weight fluctuations, health issues, yadda yadda.
I know how it feels to be on a weight loss program and to be stuck at a particular weight for a very long time:
it stinks BIG TIME!
It happened to me before, too (when I was on other weight loss programs) and it has happened to some of my personal TSFL clients using Medifast products.
I do know that eventually, the body will begin to release weight again.
Terry and I have been Health Advisors for nearly three years and our clients that have remained program-compliant on the weight loss program continued to lose weight – some people do experience occasional weight plateaus but not every person has had a total weight loss lock-down. I can think of only one who experienced a really slow month when her weight barely dropped anything in spite of being true to the program.
I am not a nurse and I am not a nutritionist by training but I would not suggest to any of my weight loss clients to stop the products or to go off of the weight loss program – I would wait it out. (Even our clients that are preggers continue to use MF for good nutrition - not to restrict their calories mind you, but for occasional meal replacement, healthy snacks and in addition to healthy regular food).
You didn’t mention if you were on the complete program last fall or not but if you were and then resumed a regular pre-Medifast meal plan; no wonder you gained 35 pounds.
When a person goes from a low calorie meal plan to higher calories, rebounding (weight gain) will occur unless calories are gradually increased and exercise is part of the equation to increase one’s metabolism.
If you were on the weight loss plan for three months, it would take a while for your body to adjust to the higher caloric intake and it would be really needful to cautiously increase your calories to prevent rebound.
i had started working out, bought a gym membership and i was using it....and a bike
If you were on the complete meal replacement program previously and working out (Particularly if you had a personal trainer who was pushing you and stepping up your program), you may have been over-exercising and your body could not tolerate the stress of a VLCD & the exercise regime.
There is plenty of time for exercise
once the weight is lost and a person is at the appropriate weight. People on the 5 and 1 may exercise along their weight loss journey but folks on the VLCD must be sensible with their caloric expenditure...
Yes, aches and pains come with an increase in weight – the fluid weight alone presses on the tissues, muscles, tendons, etc. Pressure = pain.
If you are on the complete meal replacement program, I hope that you are under the direct supervision of a physician.
Please have a complete physical to be sure that you are in excellent health, that there are no hidden health issues such as diabetes, thyroid, insulin resistance, high cholesterol, heart disease, etc.
You need a health advisor and a doctor to monitor your health. A Health Advisor alone is not enough for people on the complete meal replacement program; we are not qualified to monitor your health and evaluate your labs.
Since you are in your first week and trying to get through the day with minimal hunger and foody longings I’d suggest that you have your Medifast meals spaced every two hours – do not go longer than 2.5 hours.
Eliminate bars totally (stay away from them for several weeks – have oatmeal for breakfast and consume as many shakes as possible for the rest of your daily intake to allow the natural appetite suppression of the soy to provide the feeling of contentment to occur.
Avoid diet pop, caffeine and sugar-free gum or mints and have a Pepcid or a Tagamet to calm down your stomach acid until you’ve gotten through the first few weeks. Some people have no problems with the former items and for some of us, the fizz and caffeine stimulates our appetite and makes it more difficult to cope with hunger sensations.
When a person uses more calories than they consume, they will lose weight. We can do it two ways: eat fewer calories than what we need or burn off more calories than what we consume.
My personal metabolism rate can be different from yours – our metabolism depends upon many factors – our age, height, weight, genetics, fitness level, lifestyle, and the composition of our body (fat & muscle tissue).
So to lose flab we can eat less than what we are curently eating or exercise more to burn off more than what we eat. Many times the latter is not easy or feasible, especially when one is 70 pounds overweight or 135 pounds overweight as I was.
With our TSFL Programs, we reduce the weight and over time, we gradually increase the activity level when it can be safely done.
For a lifetime of weight management we must make positive lifestyle changes and incorporate exercise – both aerobic and weight resistance.
I’ve discussed plateaus in many posts in my Forum – in a sense, it is inevitable that dieters experience a plateau; it seems to be a natural occurrence, a dieter's occupational hazard of sorts.
When it happens, we must learn to accept it for what it is, the body’s temporary need to readjust.
I look at it this way, it is not in a left-handed child’s best interest to try to force him/her to be a righty so why should we attempt to force our body into moving on to a new place if it isn’t yet ready.
We are fearfully and wonderfully made. Medifast is simply excellent nutritional food, designed to provide the exact amount of food and in the correct proportion needed. When the bod feels safe, it will move on to its next level.
I hope I haven’t skirted the issue or botched things up – just my two cents worth.
It (Medifast products and the Take Shape For Life Programs) works…don’t mess with it.
Get all the way to your goal, transition properly – over a 6 week period of time (FOr Folks on the Complete Meal Replacement Plan) ; vigilantly work through maintenance - keep your calories initially low and then s-l-o-w-l-y increase the calories, add exercise and gradually increase it.
We are not having a race here – our aim is to get you to a healthy BMI and then keep you there for life by following the Take Shape For Life BE SLIM success points:
Breakfast daily
Exercise most days
Support from others
Low fat/low cal
Individual Plan - determine exactly what, how much and when to eat which particular healthy foods
Monitor your weight frequently