by Arklahoma » May 10th, 2006, 5:51 am
This is such a hard situation and you handled it with great finesse. As we journey through our battle with food and it's hold over us, our families have to re-think their food associations, as well. Most people associate home-made food with love, appreciation, safety and security so we definitely have to retrain our families thinking.
I have had a difficult time with my husband's side of the family as they always want to go out to dinner or have a special meal when we're in town. My MIL has a personal chef with a degree in pastry chef'ing (or whatever it's called). It's always a fantastic spread so we have not been to see her since the diet began. However, we are going for Thanksgiving so I'm already working on the programming in my head.
Best of luck!!!