Congratulations Tonia!!!! (I'm just catching up on some posts after my vacation) Our 4th was a surprise too, making the last two 20 months apart. It CAN be difficult having two in diapers, but now that they are 4 & 6 they are lost when the other isn't around...OH the fighting can make you want to pull your hair out, but it's SO nice that they never feel lonely and when a neighborhood kid is being mean to one of them, they stick up for each other and always have a playmate. It really does have more advantages than disadvantages
I got "fixed" after the last one. Hubby offered, but I am 37 and he is 31...I have 4 kids total, he has the two we had together...so I thought, if something happened to him, I wouldn't want any more kids, if something happened to me, he MIGHT want more. SO, I bit the bullet
OK, I'm rambling with my life story here...Just wanted you to feel encouraged that it'll all be good
Best wishes for a healthy and happy pregnancy