Sojourner wrote:but here in Cali there's something called IHSS (In Home Supportive Services) that sounds as though it might fit your Grammy's needs.
Serendipity wrote: We hired a caretaker to be with her during the day and we moved in with her for evenings, night, and weekends.
I would not suggest either of these methods. The caretakers were not from an agency, so they weren't bonded. We had various problems I won't go into, except to say that if we had used an agency, we would have at least had somewhere to go with complaints rather than just firing one and hiring another. Living with my MIL was a challenge. There was alot of stress. I was the caretaker at night and all weekend. I worked during the week, took care of my husband and sons all the time. For a few years, that's all I did.
If I had it to do over, we would have hired an agency. At the time, we thought it would be better for her to have only 1 person for familiarity, but the problems far outweighed the benefits. Agencies can be very very expensive. In fact, they can be more expensive than nursing homes. $5,000 +/month for 24 hour care, but if the money is there, it is well worth it to assure the safety of a loved one.
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