If I pretended to be Nancy for a moment, here's what I think she'd say... (dare I presume????
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If you have a glass of milk, which has about 90 - 120 calories per cup and some good protein and calcium, with relatively few carbs, will it kill ya? No. Will it set you back on weight loss? Maybe not. But there are 2 good reasons to resist: One, the MF plan was formulated by experts on weight loss and nutrition, and they came up with MF for a reason. Presumably, they excluded milk for a reason, too. If experts came up with MF, and if it is proven to work as formulated, why mess with a proven formula? Two, many people find that the regimen of MF is necessary to help them reevaluate the foodie habits that made them fat in the first place. MF makes it easy to lose by taking the guesswork out of weight loss and calorie/protein/carb control and giving you a no-fail way to lose weight. If you allow yourself early on in the program to substitute foods for the MF packets, you are already making an end-run around the regimen and, for some, that might prove to be the first step down a long and slippery slope. Eight ounces of milk might turn into 12 ounces; a glass of milk might turn into a piece of cheese here and there, or a bit of this and a lick of that and a nibble of this.... Even if the foods you crave are "healthy," they can just add up to an unhelpful protein/carb/calorie ratio that knocks you out of ketosis and makes you miserable and hungry, even if you do continue to lose weight.
I don't mean to tell ya that I think you guys are weak, or doomed to failure, or incapable of making smart healthful eating choices.
There's no food police here, and no one's gonna be leaning over your shoulder ready to rap you on the knuckles if you drink milk instead of a shake. Certainly, a glass of skim milk, in the grand scheme of things, is a good food choice (especially compared to the pepperoni pizza *I* would prefer!
). But on MF, milk is just not meant to be regularly included until you get close to goal and need to start incorporating more calories and more "real" food choices as you approach maintentance. Put more simply, why mess with a good thing? For me, anyway, it would just be too easy to let that one substitution become a pattern of me thinking I know better than MF. I found out the hard way that I don't!
Hope this helps.... Please know we're all dealing with wishing we could eat just a few more things or could sub just a little of this or that... We hear ya and sympathize! The choice is yours, of course, but my two cents is that you'll probably benefit more from giving up the milk for the short term, in trade for long-term success. The milk will be there for you when you reach goal! And you can drink it til you're blue in the face! (Or white, I suppose....)
Whoa-- sorry for the milk diatribe. My fingers just wouldn't stop typin'!