DonicaB wrote:[I love your first post. Especially the parts above. With your wonderful attitude.......I have no doubt you will be successful. If I have learned anything over the past 3 months by reading all of the posts here.....it's how important compliance is.......no more excuses. Either I want this......or I don't.
Welcome to journaling. I look forward to sharing your journey with you.
DonicaB
This is so true Donica....it all boils down to each of us asking ourselves "do you want to lose the weight or not and how much do you want to lose the weight?" Is it only while it is convienent? Is it only while it is easy? Is it only when you are full already so the idea of a food restrictive program sounds easy/fine/good idea?
I think that is why so many don't continue with the program or fight with giving into temptation of going off of program often.........they've not decided to give up what they want right now, for what they want most. Sure a piece of pizza, a chinese dinner, a piece of birthday cake or an ice cream sundae sounds and looks wonderful.......but the problem is that sometimes we don't stop to think "is this truly what I want long term?" "Is this going to help get me where I truly want to be?" "I hated myself the last time I went clothes shopping because I was so heavy that nothing looked good----will eating this keep me at that place of hating myself when I go shopping, or will I be happier if I stick to the program and get where I want to be?" "what is most important to me? Eating this food/meal.........or sticking to program and getting into the best health and shape possible?" .
I'm rock solid on compliance because I've played those head games with myself before. I've decided to go off of a diet because a couple chips won't make a difference, or the pizza smelt so heavenly and I've been so good on my diet that I deserve to have some, or everyone else is eating it and they are all heavy, too, so I should be able to have some........ The games don't work, the diets/programs fail when we don't commit ourselves 100% to them.......it has to be a commitment and we have to believe we really want to be healthy and fit.
End of my rant
Began MediFast 2/10/07 212#
Reached Goal 3/15/08 147#
Renewed commitment 9/20/09-after regaining 38# (185#)
Reached Goal 1/25/10 147# Maintaining