Hello to all....hope everyone is losing, weight that is.....As for me, along with losing weight, I seem to be losing a friend or two, too. I have been part of a three-some-friendship--we all have kids around the same age, all are stay-at-home-moms, and we all live within a block of each other. All three of us have been fighting our weight for years, and at one point, the three of us went on a diet together, which included phentermine. We were all so supportive of each other, and cheered each other on as we each managed to lose around 60 pounds each. Somehow in the past year, all three of us have gained the weight back, and have been fat and miserable ever since. I have been the only one out of the three friends that decided to go on the MediFast diet (which was the best choice ever!!!
), and since starting the 1st of October, I have lost 10 pounds so far---yipee!!!
Here is where the problem begins--my two best friends will barely speak to me now! The other day, they went out and got their nails done, a pedicure--the whole works. I wasn't invited, but as soon as they got back, they both made sure to stop by my house to rave about what a wonderful time they had, and made sure to ask me if I thought their nails looked good, because they both thought so. Neither one of them are asking me how I'm doing on my diet, and I'm beginning to feel like I just plain don't exist! Is it because I'm losing weight and they're not? I've tried to get them to go on the MF diet with me, but they refuse, claiming I'm "nuts" for doing this diet. I was NOT prepared for my best friends to treat me like this simply because of a diet.....I plan to stick to my guns though, with or without their support. Has anybody else experienced anything like this? I don't mean to whine, it's just been a real shock to my system that my main support system, my two best friends with whom I've been friends with for the last 6 years, have suddenly ditched me because of a diet!