by Lauren » September 10th, 2006, 7:39 pm
Thanks, guys, you all rock! To the newbies who commented, don't be overwhelmed by the length of commitment that is required. Don't think 6 months and a year in advance, just think about today and tomorrow. Commit yourselves to today and tomorrow. That's it.
This is the first diet I've ever done that I didn't focus on how many pounds I was going to lose each week and month. I just figured I would follow the plan and whatever will be, will be. I have NEVER been so zen about a diet - I have spent years wasted calculating calories and pounds and setting goals that I never could meet. But for some reason this time was different.
I know this may not be a popular statement, but I do not personally believe that we should be slaves to a certain weight loss by a certain date. To set a weight loss goal by a reunion or a holiday or any event is just setting ourselves up for stress, and possibly, failure. You can't gauge how your body will lose weight, at what speed, and what number of pounds is an appopriate loss. And if you make some arbitrary goal of losing 50 pounds by Christmas, what happens if you lost 48. Was that not successful? Because I would think it was very successful, but the sheer fact of not meeting your goal could be debilitating.
I don't know what is making me write all this, and I am sorry for getting on a soapbox! :-) I just want everyone here to be totally successful and to use tools that will help them achieve this success. To me, just following the plan and not over-thinking it, and just promising myself to be true to it each day - that's all that worked. I had absolutely no expectations of when the weight would come off, it just did, and fast too!
Anyway, best of luck to everyone here! Keep on keepin' on!
Lauren