Hey Ladies,
Thinner is definitely healthier and the best place to be. But I am willing to bet that hubby doesn't mind a few pounds on you. Heck, he might even be putting syrup in your shakes while you're not looking
It reminds me of a Malcolm in the Middle Episode where the father was padding the mother's food with extra calories in order to continue enjoying her newly expanded posterior (she was trying to lose her post-pregnancy weight)
Contrary to what the mainstream media portrays, alot of men enjoy being with "women of stature". I, for one, can not remember when I wasn't attracted to a robust woman. And when I hit my goal weight, I will continue to date women of enhanced presence.
As you can tell, I don't like using terms like big girls, fat women, etc. They just aren't creative enough for me (as well as too demeaning for me to use)
So what's my point? Don't wait until you lose the weight, find your happiness now. Losing weight doesn't insure you will be happy. There are plenty of skinny. miserable people. Likewise, being large isn't an invitation for unhappiness. At this peak weight, I am as confident and cocky as I ever was. Even if I went down to 0% body fat, I would still weight 251 punds. Even at a healthy body fat range, I would still be around 270-ish. Should I be depressed about never being able to wear an extra large t-shirt? Heck no!!! I go out, I socialize, I date (probably a bit too much
)...I do life!
Be clear about why you are losing the weight, whatever the reason may be. I am losing weight to improve my health. Of course it will enhance other things in my life. I am no specialist in these matters, I know at least for myself that my weight gain is related to things other than hunger. Until I attack these things, I will always be looking for comfort from and a solution for my food over-consumption problem.