by Nancy » January 19th, 2006, 10:49 am
Yup.
Just because some of us have foody issues is no reason the rest of the family needs to 'suffer' and do without our conversation and time. For those of you with young children, remember...the audience is listening and looking.
When we complain, moan and groan about having to be on a DIEt, when we treat this meal plan as 'punishment' and treat our loved ones in a cranky skanky way because we are mad and cheesed about 'having' to do it, we are teaching poor attitudes and relationships about food to our young-uns.
Food is fuel. That's it.
Fuel.
Nothing more.
It is not love.
It is not peace.
It is not encouragement.
It is not joy.
It is fuel.
The time together with family and friends, scratching Fluffy's chin and rubbing Fido's belly is when we get our emotional tanks filled and it is necessary. As needful as water and the air we breathe.
We do not have to have a platter of meat and a boatload of potaters and gravy to experience family together time. Sitting at the table sipping a cup of hot water can be a wonderful experience when we are tuned in to our partner, looking them in the eyeball, appreciating them for being who they be is far more gratifying and lovely to me than chomping down a bucket of fried chicken.
But that's just me. Now - it wasn't so 3.5 years ago. My thoughts and ideas about food have changed. You see I did not want to EVER have to undergo one more weight loss trip again. I knew I had to change my lifeSTYLE for life if I was to be a winner at the losing game. I determined to not allow food to become the center of my life ever again.
Don't get me wrong here, I love good food and I enjoy it but I do not enjoy it MORE than I enjoy my family and my health.
My foodiness got me into a world of obesity and my relationship with food was a toxic relationship. It was a relationship that I broke.
I seek relationships with people now, not inanimate objects like food and the scale - they do not add value to my life but people do.
Life’s a trip! I love my life and my family and friends…I do not miss Ben or Jerry or Haagen or Dazs or Sara Lee or Mrs. Smith or ….
Nothing tastes as good as thin feels...
The Formerly FLABulous and Now very Fabulous
Nancy Pettit
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