Hey there -- I've been a board lurker for a little while. I thought it was time to post because I need some accountability.
I began Medifast 9 days ago, and quite honestly, I'm struggling. I'm not struggling with the products -- they're surprisingly good. I'm not struggling with being hungry, because surprisingly I feel full. I had read that on here before I began and was skeptical, but I am amazed at truly how easy this program has been. This is my problem:
After 5 days on the program, I had already lost 11.5 pounds (have about 115 pounds to lose in total). It was my first time to weigh after beginning the program, and I was so shocked at such a dramatic result, I began sabotaging my early success. I spend Saturday, Sunday and Monday off program picking and snacking and sneaking food, knowing I was deliberately ruining what I had already achieved and feeling too afraid to stop. Finally today I'm back on target with my supplements, but I weighed in this morning, and my weekend binge left me 5.5 pounds back up. I'm at 6 pounds lost still, which I guess is respectable for 9 days, but I am so concerned about what the future holds.
I have always used food and weight gain as a protective measure stemming from some abuse during my childhood, and have been overweight for as long as I can remember. I do not have a thin day to look back on and remember what that felt like. Weight has always been an issue for me -- my wall of safety -- and quite honestly, if my doctor had not recently advised me of some health concerns that will be exacerbated by remaining overweight, I would have no interest in losing the pounds. I am afraid of being thin, though I know I have to lose the weight to live a life with quality. I am afraid of the attention that comes when the weight is lost and I'm thin.
I know this has to sound so crazy, but I know I cannot be totally alone. I'm wondering if there is anyone out there with similar issues either in the process of losing the weight, or who has reached their goal. I would love some input on how long it took you to feel o.k. about not hiding behind weight, and how you got to that point. I really must lose the weight and am so afraid. I could relly use some support...
Thanks for letting me be a freak!