Glad you are doing well, Dona! When you spoke about your son's perseverance I couldn't help but think of the wonderful example he must be to you. After all, you are facing weight-loss challenges and I think, with your attitude, you will also persevere!
I too have made choices to go off-plan. Of course I'm not on a time-table for reaching goal (although I do have a cruise scheduled for October
). I know that my weight issues will be with me the rest of my life and it will involve making choices. The way I see it--may as well start now! However, I am also aware of what self-sabotage is and how it can be a slippery slope. One must know the difference. Sounds like you do.
Again, congratulations on your son's graduation!
And congratulations for your determination to reach goal! It will happen in due time!!