Dear Julie Ann ~
75 pounds?!
Oh, MyLanta!
Boy, Howdy! She noticed!
re:
Oh, well I could tell something was different
Yup, something is
different all right.
The ahh, other so-called 'friend' must have had
a cerebral vacuum or something because
her brain obviously is no longer in a functioning mode...
How
sad and terribly self-centered she is to not say anything about your
marvelous weight loss success.
Maybe we could all line up and
and
and
and
and
Hunny Bunny, I want you to know that I know how it feels.
My supervisor at the college where I USED to work until I became a Health Advisor, never ONCE mentioned a thing about my 135 pound weight loss.
Nothing.
I saw her
4 days a week.
She bustled and hustled her flabby backside by my glass office numerous times a day.
Holy Moly! Students and staff alike were lined up outside my classroom window
peering in to see what I was wearing or how I looked and that
wire-haired wanna-be-thinner donkey-hearted muley girl never once mentioned
a single solitary word about my weight loss - she never told me that I looked nice or asked me what I was doing - for
crying out loud! Some people actually hemmed and hawed and finally reluctantly asked me if I had cancer or some devastating disease because I was getting thinner!
It became my
challenge to get her to say something. I wore very leopardy outfits to school - like leopard print stockings, handbags, shoes, etc. She loved animal prints and yet she never even commented on anything I wore - I mean the male staff was taking
extra walks past my office, peering and leering, waving and raving about me and yet…nothing from her.
When I resigned from the college, Terry was with me and he mentioned to her that Nancy no longer had time for her work at the college because of her weight loss success she had many precious people that needed her and she just had a blank stare...
We must do this for ourselves, Little Darlin' - if we are to get it all off and to keep it all off, we must be self-motivated and self-preserving.
We will always be faced with those
who want to see us mess up, with those who are so
jealous they will not (and maybe they
cannot say anything, I dunno - haven't figured that one out yet) acknowledge our success and there will come a time when we will be thinner, we will meet people who will not know our foody/fatty history and we will not get rewarded by their praises and accolades for our hard-earned accomplishment.
You, my MakeMeThinner Forum Family fill my tank. You praise me and encourage me and we do it for one another but there will come a time when you are on your own and you have to keep on choosing wisely for yourself -
not for the praise of people but for the health of it.
75 pounds is a whole lotta lot to lose. It takes a strong commitment, self-control, determination and a desire to be different and to do things differently. It is not easy. Some days may not be as difficult as others but it never is easy-weesy. You have done a very difficult thing, Julie Ann.
We love ya for loving yourself!