SharonR wrote:This is suppose to be a encouraging place, a soft place to fall. People should be able to tell how they fell of the wagon and be encouraged to get goin' again.
That's what keeps me comin' back to this forum, some people are very lovely and always care and are ready to pick me up when I fall. I appriciate that more than words can say.
DogMa wrote:I've been completely compliant and lost nothing for weeks at a time (I think three weeks was my longest) and very slowly the rest of the time. I've also been NOT compliant and actually lost more quickly that way.
So to offer a somewhat dissenting opinion, I think occasional off-plan eating can be useful if done right. It can jump-start things for those of us who go three weeks following the plan to the letter without losing a thing. It can also be good training for maintenance. Speaking just for myself, I'm not planning to swear off pizza and other off-plan foods for the rest of my life. I also realize I can't eat those things whenever I feel like it, or I'll gain everything back plus more. What I CAN do is learn to allow myself occasional treats and then go right back to my normal vigilance.
Personally, I don't expect to suddenly learn how to do that 8 pounds from now, when I hit goal (assuming I do; my goal is no longer a number on a scale). For me, that is yet another lesson I'm learning on this journey. I am no longer an all-or-nothing person, which I feel is one of the reasons I got this way in the first place. In the past, either I was on a diet or I wasn't. Either I restricted what I ate or I didn't. Now, I can have something that's not on the plan and recognize that it doesn't mean I've failed or I need to give up or anything else. All it means is I had something not on the plan. Three hours later, I have another Medifast meal and everything's back to normal.
SharonR wrote:Thank you Robin, I think that is very encouraging and other's who struggle as I do will see it the same way.
I am NOT saying to go off plan, I'm saying if you do, as Robin says go back, start again.
I just don't think we should beat up ourselves or others because they/we "cheat".
This is suppose to be a encouraging place, a soft place to fall. People should be able to tell how they fell of the wagon and be encouraged to get goin' again.
That's what keeps me comin' back to this forum, some people are very lovely and always care and are ready to pick me up when I fall. I appriciate that more than words can say.
So here's to workin the program how it best suits you!
SharonR wrote:People should be able to tell how they fell of the wagon and be encouraged to get goin' again.
That's what keeps me comin' back to this forum, some people are very lovely and always care and are ready to pick me up when I fall. I appriciate that more than words can say.
So here's to workin the program how it best suits you!
Unca_Tim wrote:Everyone's lifestyle and approach to the program is as unique as they are.
Just do the best you can. . . The more important part (during the weight loss phase) is structuring your eating habits and retraining yourself so you can keep your health forever.
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