by cindyjones008 » August 24th, 2008, 8:29 am
I have been starting MF all summer long! I would start but then on day one or two or three or so, I would give in to my sugar cravings and binge on chocolate. I started to feel that I will never get this program. I even tried doing low carbs at first, that way I could detox off of sugar but still be able to stuff my face with food, hoping that would help, but no success.
I am now starting day four and I know I am going to make it, and I know how. It is a lot of work right now, but I am confident it will get easier.
I had to change my thought process. Previously I told myself that once I fit into a size 12 or smaller, I will like my body and like myself. Only if...I was smaller would I then start liking my body, who I was, but until then, I talked negatively about myself.
What I have been working on changing over the past week is my thoughts and feelings towards myself. I would look in the mirror every morning and say "I love and approve of myself." When I would catch myself having negative self thoughts, such as "I'm so fat, when people look at me, they see a fat person," I would immediatly change the thought to "I love and approve of myself." An interesting thing happened, I actually started to look prettier. Once I started to like who I am now, I was able to start working on myself. Currently I tell myself "I am 100% successful on MF, I enjoy doing MF, MF is easy, I will remain compliant on MF, I will meet my weight loss goal." Frequently I have to remind myself of this. I am confident that in the future, it will get easier and those thoughts will come more naturally. For the time being, I really have to work at it, I catch myself saying that MF is too hard, I can't make it on MF, I'll just eat some candy today and re-start tomorrwo. When I have those thoughts, I focus on my new positive affirmations and then I feel better.
Sometimes my new thoughts will last me a long time, sometimes I find myself having to constantly repeat my postiive affirmations. It wasn't until I started working at thinking positive about myself that I realized just how often I had negative self talk and self thoughts. No wonder I wasn't successful before. Who could be successful when you're constantly being told you're too fat, too ugly, you don't count as much as others, you look ridiculous, it't too hard for you, you don't deserve it, you'll never be one of those thin persons?
Those were the kinds of thoughts I constantly had going on in my head. It feels good that I am able to recognize that now, it feels good knowing that I am starting to love and approve myself just as I am right now in this moment, I speacial and I deserve to be loved and to feel good about my body and myself.
I am grateful for being introduced to MF in the first place. I am grateful for finding this support group. I am grateful that I am improving my health. I am grateful that I am able to work on myself.