The MakeMeThinner Support Forum

[katesmom]

Hi Chynna,
Where are you?????? I have been thinking that I haven't seen you on the boards lately...

Sending hugs your way and hope that you are okay...

[Lizabette]

Hi Chynna,
Where are you?????? I have been thinking that I haven't seen you on the boards lately...Sending hugs your way and hope that you are okay...

Hi PAMMY,
I am going to answer your enquiry to CHYNNA on her journal. She appreciates your concern and asking about her.
She said it is okay for me to share her thoughts about why she is no longer posting, so I'll just mention it here for all our benefits.
Not to cast any negative feelings here, but so you will understand.
No one, except you PAM has enquired about her absence from the board and in her words, that hurts!.
Personally I know that many of the mf posters just like you who were inspired and interested in CHYNNA's progress and appreciated her encouraging words to them.
It is just that sometimes, we kinda, sorta neglect to let people know...it's like out of sight, out of mind...don't you think?
So really no more needs be said about it.
BTW, she said she would be happy to hear from you if you still have her email addy.
Anyway, CHI, we really do miss you from the boards, and yes, you are an inspiration to us!

[Elizabeth]

Chynna, we need successful, positive, kind and supportive people like you on this board. I've missed reading your posts even though I don't post all that often. I'm thinking that the squeaky wheel gets the grease when it comes to people posting . I'm sorry you are not feeling appreciated lately but please know you are!

[katesmom]

Good Morning Chynna,
It is Sunday September 16th...Should be very sunny out today and pleasant...

Sure do miss you !!

[Mike]

Chynna,

I just sent you a PM. Hope all is well with you.

[Mickeyz]

I am sorry we are not hearing from you lately. I always found your posts to be inspiring and uplifting. I know it can be hurtful when you feel like no one misses you; I have had the same experience here. Perhaps people are just so self absorbed in their own journey and their own lives they forget the effect they have on others. Let's face it, the boards are very clique-ish, and as someone said earlier “the squeaky wheel gets the grease”. In reality our true support systems come from people we know and know us and love us. Yes it is fun to communicate with other people on the weight loss path and share our experiences, but they are not, for the most part, really our friends. I am not saying we can not be a great benefit to one another and give support, and there are some really nice people here, but perhaps we need to accept these relationships for what they are.

I hope you are doing well and have a good real life support system. Don’t let this get to you; you are a worthy person who has accomplished some remarkable things. Give yourself a big hug and do something kind for yourself.

[Tawanda]

Chynna, from what Lizabette mentions in her journal it sounds like you are having some tough times. I'm sorry you aren't feeling up to, or able to, let us know that you need some prayers.

Hope that the problems/struggles subside soon.

Thinking of you.

[Joy]

Hi,

Sending Light and Love you way!

joy

[katesmom]

Hi Chynna,
Lots of hugs to you !!

[MerryMary]

I am sorry we are not hearing from you lately. I always found your posts to be inspiring and uplifting. I know it can be hurtful when you feel like no one misses you; I have had the same experience here. Perhaps people are just so self absorbed in their own journey and their own lives they forget the effect they have on others. Let's face it, the boards are very clique-ish, and as someone said earlier “the squeaky wheel gets the grease”. In reality our true support systems come from people we know and know us and love us. Yes it is fun to communicate with other people on the weight loss path and share our experiences, but they are not, for the most part, really our friends. I am not saying we can not be a great benefit to one another and give support, and there are some really nice people here, but perhaps we need to accept these relationships for what they are.

I hope you are doing well and have a good real life support system. Don’t let this get to you; you are a worthy person who has accomplished some remarkable things. Give yourself a big hug and do something kind for yourself.

Chynna, I could not have said it better than Mickey has. If you need to broaden your support system I've PM'd you with my email address.

Peace, darling Chynna.

[Mickeyz]

Even if you are not posting right now I hope you pop in to read once in a while.

I was just thinking about you and I hope you are doing well.

Take Care

[bikipatra]

Hope you have a great week!

[Lizabette]

Miss you, My CHI.
Love ya the most!

[katesmom]

Hi Chynna,
I been sick for the past few days and now I'm back...Sure do miss you !

[Diana]

Hey, Beautiful.

Just stopping by to deliver a hug. I'm praying all's well with you, your daughter, your family, and mostly you.

, Di