I think oatmeal is something that is sort of an acquired taste and many of us Boomers grew up on the stuff - when I was a kid some of the hot cereals my Mom served are:
Old Fashion Quaker Oats
Malt-o-meal
Red River Cereal (I love it to this day)
Roman Meal Cereal
Wheat Hearts Cereal
Cream of Rice & Cream of Wheat
She also made white or brown rice for breakfast. All of the above was served with raisins, brown sugar and fresh cream, of course!
Plus she also made biscuits or corn bread which we drenched with syrup and butter.
Now you know why I was a chubbette all my life - Margarine and 2% milk never crossed my lips!
The texture of the oatmeal also has something to do with how it goes down. Some people prefer the library paste thickness and others like it runny and then there are those who go down the middle of the road and like it semi-thick. You have to experiment with the amount of water used to prepare it. The Apple Cinnie thickens more because the dried apples absorb some of the water. I'd say the Peach would be the next flavor that may thicken after nuking. If you think you'd like it thicker, then go with nearly 6 ounces of water to begin with and if needed, add more after it's cooked and rested a minute.
Maybe you'll never like it and that's ok because there are other things to have for breakfast, like puddin'!