The MakeMeThinner Support Forum

[loriannk]

You look beautiful already. Just think what you will look like as you get healthier and healthier.

[caligirl]

Wow, all of you are so sweet!
You really put a spring in my step.
You know, these pictures were taken at my daughter's 1st communion at the end of April. And it was a very important day for our family. We had family in from Mexico, and a huge party of over 35 people afterward.
I was so preoccupied the whole time about how I looked, and couldn't really enjoy myself among my (skinny) in-laws. I tried to keep my chin up, and kept the focus on my daughter's great day (she is so sweet, by the way).
The kicker came a week later, when my cousin emailed me these pics. I was mortified. I knew I was overweight, but somehow didn't realize how out of hand it had gotten. But, truth be told, I barely look in the mirror anymore. It's funny how we see what we want to see. I just sat there, not believing my eyes. I tried to blame it on the camera, but why would my husband and daughter look normal? What kind of cruel joke was this??!!
I confessed to my husband, just how depressed I was about my weight (he NEVER comments on my weight, he's ALWAYS supportive).
He said a few words that would motivate me like never before.
He told me that I was such a strong person, reliable and always accomplish what I set my mind to (professionally, educationally, as a mom). If I was this upset, I should apply the same strength and resolve to giving myself the gift of freedom. Freedom from the hold the weight has on me. He told me how it hurt him to watch me get ready to go out to dinner, say; then go back and change, because nothing fits me right. He said that he can tell, as we're on date night, for example, that I'm worried about how I look. I was so surprised that he could tell what I was going through due to my weight. He NEVER said anything like, "do you really want to eat that?"
I just cried. I wondered, how did I let it get this out of hand?
Well, fast forward a few months.
I tried to eat healthy on my own, found Medifast to be a much easier solution. I never imagined that I'd get such support from you all. I'm a true believer in these message boards, and know that I'll do it this time because it's not a diet. It's a community.

Thank you all for your kind, supportive words and for letting me join you on this exciting path!!!

[DntCryLilEmoGrl]

wow what a great supportive husband... with him and us on your side your going to love pics of yourself in no time . i check myself out in the mirrors now...like yeah...thats right...im gonna be hot you will too lol

[Lizabette]

CALIGIRL,

You are doing wonderful,
You have such a gorgeous smile and fabulous hair. That beautiful face should be on your avatar!

Silver Fox would love it!

[Lady Bug]

WOW!!!! You are so pretty and off to a great start!!! Good work!!!

Evie

[JeepGirl]

I think most of with kids are guilty of the exact same thing! I know I am.
*which reminds me I need to post a pic lol*

You are blessed to have a wonderful and supportive husband. It makes a world of difference when the one closest to you support you the most!

Good Luck and I look forward to seeing progress pics!!

[Zinkette99]

You look gorgeous already as everyone can see. What a beautiful face and I am very jealous of your hair.

You are going to be STUNNING at goal!

[Arklahoma]

Thanks for posting the pics. I know it was hard but you'll be so pleased as you are able to post updates.

[Ginabobina1969]

Your already on your way but I wanted to say you look beautiful already and I know you will do this!! Your husband sounds like a keeper!

Keep shaking,
Hugs,
Gina

[caligirl]

Well, I've slowed down quite a bit, but I've also been snacking more. Anyhow, here are some new face pics for my 20 pounds lost mark... You might notice, I decided to wop of 6" of hair! Nice for a warm summer. At first I said I'd hold off until I lost the weight, as if my hair was hiding my FAT!!!
Then I said, if I cut it off now, I'll have to lose the weight!!! I'm also getting rid of all my size 20-22's, and happily in my 18's. Thank God I have a wardrobe in every size through to 12!!! And I have very basic style, so no worries about that! If I have no fat clothes, I won't get fat, right???




Shake on!!!

[JeepGirl]

I can see a big difference in just the photos! Plus the haircut is a change too lol

You are doing great! Keep it up Girl!!

[Arklahoma]

Great pics ~ Love the hair!!!

[bdg]

I can definitely see a big diff! Keep up the good work!

[Denise]

You are smoldering!