I am a big believer in massage, and my son is halfway thru his massage therapy school program.
Massage can help relieve stress - which causes a lot of us to over eat. It also improves circulation, helps rid the muscles of toxins, helps the flow of lymphatic fluid through the tissues.
In addition, the use of herbal products can intensify all of these benefits.
So - go get a massage, or 2 or 3, . . . . . .
You're not spoiling yourself, you're caring for yourself - it's OK