by Marseilles » March 15th, 2006, 9:05 am
Hi Hollie...
I hope you take this post in the spirit it is intended and do not take offense, but I have been reading your posts all along and feel the need to speak up. It seems like others responding you are doing a lot of hand-holding and molly-coddling and I really do not think it is in your best interest for that to continue. I would like to take the opportunity to speak honestly to you and point out a few things.
First of all, medifast is a finely tuned program, designed to help people succeed based on its nutritional value, vast research, the experience of professionals testing and designing the supplements and its simplicity of use. The way you are working this program leaves you doomed to one result: failure. The program, as it is designed, is written in STONE. It does NOT leave room for variations and experimentation aside from what is clearly laid out in the guidelines and support provided. I understand completely that each and every day on medifast is a challenge and each and every day we all face decisions and temptation. I would advise you to take a long hard look at your methods and motivation. You are cheating no one but yourself each time you eat that piece of bread, the dried nuts, the snowballs and anything else ASIDE from medifast or the allowable lean and green that you choose to put in your mouth. Hollie, I do not doubt your intent or the validity of you needing to lose a few pounds or a hundred. We are all here for our own reasons and with our own goals but I would seriously advise that perhaps you speak to a professional about your food struggles. I know from your previous posts that you have battled both ends of the weight game and you know as well as I do that there is something deeper going on here than a few extra pounds.
Please Hollie, if you choose to continue on medifast, be determined to do it correctly. Do it with the intent to succeed and do not continue to find a million reasons to stray. If you do not, you may still lose the weight you desire but I guarantee 100% that you WILL gain it all back and possibly more if for no other reason than by doing what you are doing RIGHT NOW, you are further damaging your metabolism at the very least and possibly worse than that.
I wish you great success Hollie, and I hope you take this to heart. Call it a tough love approach but you are seriously hurting yourself right now and noone here desires to see that.
All the very best,
-M.