by Heidi » May 14th, 2005, 8:11 am
It all started Mother's Day weekend...Up until this past week I have been sooooo good-doing full fast for most of the time (since April 5), and occasionally eating a healthy dinner. I have lost 22 lbs. and 16 inches! Yes, I am happy and proud. However this past week has been a disaster! Mother's Day is supposed to be a day of celebration and appreciation, but for me it is one of the saddest days of the year. More than anything I want to be a mom, but I am unable to due to health reasons and a hormonal disorder. Have considered adoption, but doesn't work for my husband and I due to various personal, health and financial reasons. It's always been a difficult day, wishing I could hear the words just one time, "Happy Mother's Day, Mommy!" Every year I try to stay focused on the wonderful things I do have : An amazing husband, a very loving and supportive family, great friends, a good job that I love, a beautiful home, faith in God, most importantly a Mom that is absolutely the best woman I have in my life. I also try to stay busy celebrating with my own mom and family by going to luncheons, church, family celebrations. Well, it happened..I had a very sad weekend despite the joy that I was surrounded by. I secretly cried, felt sorry for myself, then began to eat. It wasn't just one piece of pizza, but two. It was just a hamburger, but the onion rings too. My whole week has been spent relying on food for comfort. Right now I am kicking myself, hoping that I am not sabbotaging myself, and using my sadness as an excuse. Never once when I ate those things was I hungry, but they did taste DELICIOUS!! However, right at this time as I am writing this with tears and disgust, I realize that the food didn't comfort me and I am still a mother without a child. I can't believe I am telling you all this and I don't even really know you. I just seems like most of you have some of the same problems with food-using it for comfort when life seems so hard. I go back to the doctor on Monday and he told me on my last visit that if me blood sugar was still at PERFECT, he is going to start taking me off of some of my diabetic meds. For that, I am proud and grateful. OK, so I having a huge pity party for myself and I WILL pull myself out of it. Although I haven't responded lately, I just want you all to know that I appreciate this online support so much, and I promise to get better at writing back to all of you that continually give so much to all of us. Have a great weekend and thanks for listening to my blubbering and babbling. See you tomorrow at roll call. Heidi