I am frightened I will fail, and that I will remain overweight forever. This is my second attempt at Medifast. Two years ago, at 5'2" I weighed 196 pounds. My family doctor introduced me to medifast, so I started medifast with his supervision. My doctor had me come in once a week (I was doing 100% shakes, 5 a day) to be weighed, check my vitals, and ketones. In addition, my weekly doctor visits brought me much needed moral support. Well, I went down to 142 pounds. Although I had more weight to loose, I went off of Medifast. Also, towards the end of using medifast, I occasionally cheated, I would have a pint of ice cream or bag of candy. However, when I weighed in at the doctor's, I had still lost weight. My doctor told me that my brain sometimes thinks like a two year old--that since I got away with cheating once or twice, I could do it again and still get away with it. And that is basically what happened. My cheating increased and next thing I knew I was back to eating sugar everyday. As a result, I gained back about 16 pounds. I do not want to continue on this insane eating cycle, so I decided to go back on Medifast. But first, I first tried the low carb thing, I had been successful with that several years ago, but that didn't work because whenever I ate, I always craved sugar real bad, no matter what or how much I ate I never felt full, so I was not successful. So then, I started medifast again with my leftover shakes but only last one morning! I did not want to give up sugar! My problem isn't really food, it is sugar (chocolate, candy, cookies, ice cream, brownies), I binge on sugar foods!! So I went on the 1000 calorie a day diet. I planned out my foods, totaling 1000 calories with most of the calories being from chocolate. Well, that last three days. A few days later I got sick and tired of being sick and tired of feeling fat. I want to loose weight to be healthy, not so much for vanity reasons. Of course there is some vanity involved, but the biggest reason is that I want to live a long and healthy life.
Which brings me to where I am today, back on medifast and already feeling like a failure. This time around, I am ordering medifast online, instead of going through my doctor. While I would really appreciate the emotional support of my doctor, I can’t afford to go. I am just barely affording ordering medifast online. Anyways, while I was waiting for my medifast to arrive in the mail, I figured, hey, why not have one last good day of eating whatever I want?! Which, the mail came late, and I ended up binging on absolutely anything I wanted for a few days. I went from around 154 to around 158 in just a few days. My medifast arrived and yesterday would have been day three. It was in the evening and I was feeling good that I was about to completed the first three days. But then I got real bad cravings for chocolate and ended up, at 9:00 p.m. going to the store and buying chocolate! Eating the chocolate brought me a feeling of relief, it felt good to eat it. Also, I do have regret, but I am trying not to waste time beating myself up over it. I am trying to gain from it in the sense that when I was eating the chocolate, it tasted different than it used to. To me, it tasted much more salty and just, I dunno, it just didn’t seem to taste quite as good as before. So I am telling myself that this is because I was at day three medifast and my body was not used to chocolate so it just wasn’t as natural eating it. Well, at least that what I am trying to take away from my mishap. All last night I was debating on whether or not, the next day (today) if I should continue on Medifast. Is it worth it? Can I do it again? Can I have some level of success again? Can I actually live without eating my yummy sugar foods? How does one live life just putting things in their mouth that are healthy and only serve the purpose of nourishing my body? That sounds like something other people can do—not me!!!!
But here I am, I have decided to medifast today. But I am very afraid I will soon again, if even tonight, fail again and go on another binge!! My boyfriend and I are breaking up, my best-friend and I recently were in a huge fight and are no longer friends. I was so busy before with school that I didn’t have much of a social life besides my boyfriend and best-friend, and I have already completely lost one of them, and am in the process of loosing the other one. Food sure would be a good companion during this troubling time! But I don’t want to think like that because it will just make things worse, make me feel worse about myself. I want a healthy lifestyle.
Well, thanks for anybody who actually read this entire entry, I know I wrote a lot. I am really scared that I won't make it, really really scared!